Novel relationships are always exciting. Love is blossoming and both partners have an irresistible attraction towards each other. You both love spending time with your soul mate. Both the partners enjoy each other’s company, dinners, movies, cuddling and just being together.
Girls are always over excited about their new relationship. The moment she fell head over heels for him, everything starts revolving around the new man’ in her life. Overwhelmed with excitement, a girl will always share details of her new relationship with her best friend or sister and tell them all about the new man in her life.
But there are sure things that almost every girl does in a new relationship but she would never admit it. Most of the girls engage themselves in these behaviors to check if the person is the right man for them. With these acts they are unconsciously ticking a checklist in their quest for their perfect man.
Here is a list of 8 activities that girl get involved into right after they fell for a man. But they will always try to keep these activities a secret from everyone and especially their man.
8. Stalking Him On Social Media
Immediately after you start dating him you will feel the urge to spy him. So you start stalking him on Facebook and on every possible social media site. You want to know about his every move on social media. What is he tweeting about, whom he is sending likes etc.
7. Checking Out His Cell Phone
No you never leave them alone. You certainly find it very essential to go through all his cell phone texts and contact list. Not understanding the value of his personal space and privacy, you just scroll through all his Whatsapp messages as soon you get your hands on his phone. And definitely you won’t ever let him know that you have scanned his phone. And now you pretend to be the innocent girl who is there just for love and trust. That’s mean.
6. Surfing Through His Ex’s Facebook
Not even their ex’s are spared. You will have a good 3 hours peek at his ex’s Facebook. Checking and analyzing her every status and post. You are unconsciously comparing her with your looks, intelligence, beauty, social life etc.
5. Checkout His Medicine Cabinet
According to you, by checking on his medicine cabinet you can get a lot of hidden information about him. What medication he is or has been taking can tell you a lot about him. His hygiene supplies and grooming products can definitely give you a clue about his personality. Will you ever mention him that you scanned his medicine box? Of course not.
В 4. Digging Through His Junk Drawer
That’s one of your favorite. You look through his junk drawer to find out missing clues of his past life. You will scan through each piece of paper to find out what he has been doing over the past couple of years. And for sure you will never admit it that you know what he has stored in his junk drawer.
3. Leave Things At His Space
Oh! Did I leave my dress in your closet?” That’s so smart of you. Accidentally leaving your things in his apartment, with a deliberate intention, is one clever move that almost every girl does when she is in a new relationship. Leaving behind their personal use items or clothing articles is just to remind him that now this territory has another resident.
2. Picturing Every Detail Of Your Future
From the moment you met him you start fantasizing about your future life with him. How your future home will be like, your kids, their names, your new car, your dream house; meaning you will picture every little detail of your future in your mind. And are you telling him all that now, I don’t think so.
1. Stealing One Of HisВ FavoriteВ Shirt
You will take one of his T-shirts with you because you just want to have his feel when he is not around. And you also sprayed it with his favorite cologne. You want to use it as one of your favorite night-shirt. And when he inquires about his T-shirt you absolutely have no clue.
Approach on girls tell us can you relate to any of these things in your new relationship scenario? В В
And for men did you ever had an idea that she is checking-on you behind your back?
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé